Guys, lets not compel the girls to love us!

Its quite furious,annoying,embarrassing for a girl to show her acceptance towards a guy whom she doesnt love!
More often than not, i do see a few boys compelling the girls to accept them as their better halves..i have even seen the girls weeping due to the emotional blackmail that they face from the boys!
"I will destruct my self if u don't accept me","
"am dying because of u.."
"i will marry you or no one" etc are those phrases that irritates a girl the most..
The boy may use these sentences to show his love towards the girl but indeed these sentences results in emotional trauma of the girl...
"freedom of having freedom to do what ever one feels right is a birth right" right?
Then how can we guys ruin the freedom of the most fragile creation of The Almighty?
Then how can we guys see the girl's tears falling down because of us?
Guys lets understand the fact that love can't be created in one's mind due to an impulsion!
A relationship between two individuals is something that gives an overwhelming joy at least once in a day,or in  a week,or at least in a month.
If the girl is crying everyday because of the thought of getting into a relationship with you, then how can she dare to spend her whole life with you?
Every guy who emotionally persuade a girl to love him should ask himself all these and try to find out the answers!
Even if the girl accepts the boy due to incarceration created by the boy, the relationship between the two may slenderize with the mere passage of time mainly due to the egotism in girls mind!it is quite true indeed!
Guys,do not exaggerate yourselves in front of the girls....try to be as you are....and if the girl accepts you,then just walk on air due to ecstasy and if not do not go into a state of depression...
Be optimistic..more lucky girls are waiting for you!